To Russia (And Back) With Love
Friday, July 04, 2008
  Two Years Later...
Every few months, I'll get a message from a random Internetizen asking something like, "Why don't you update your blog?" "Is everything okay?"

Sure, I promised nearly two years ago that there would be more to come. Then I thought about it some more.

This is a blog about our Russian adoption adventure. In the eight months between the time we brought Zoe home and I stopped actively blogging on a regular basis, I realized that more often than not, the blog was reaching for anything to do with Russian adoption. No longer was there a legitimate Russian-specific angle. No longer was there an adoption-specific angle. And I wondered why.

And it came to me. In eight months, our daughter was no longer an adopted Russian child. She was a typical, assimilated American three-year-old, fully bonded with her immediate and extended family. With typical American three-year-old attitude.

Now she's a typical, American five-year-old headed to kindergarten in two short months. With dozens of five-year-old girlfriends filling her calendar with playdates and birthday parties. Ballet, gymnastics, soccer and swimming classes behind her. A trail of broken-hearted boyfriends left behind in pre-school and summer camp. High School Musical 1&2 posters adorning the back of her bedroom door, and parents wishing to drive an icepick through their own skulls as they cater to her demands of repeated listening of the HSM soundtracks in the car.


On America's 232nd birthday, our birthday wish for you is that your dreams come true, just as ours have.

 
Comments:
As a witness to this loving assimilation, I was thrilled to read this update. I remember the first time the Zoe visited our home. She stood in the shadows. She was shy and spoke a blend of three year old, english and russian. The last time I saw her she was the great american dream. Happy, gregarious, full of life and powered by the love of her family. She is not just the realization of every immigrant who came to this country. She is also the fulfillment of her parents hopes and dreams for themselves and their children.
 
It's interesting ... I don't really read blogs about the russian adoption process anymore, but I read the blogs of the new families we all have. i'd love to hear about your stories about your family life! i see you post every so often on the yahoo board and have wondered how you guys are...
 
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